Stop making excuses for why you can’t or won’t. If you are serious about making a difference in your life, then you have to change your mindset and focus on “how”:
1) what are you trying to do?
2) what does success look like? (Be specific)
3) what are the obstacles that may get in your way?
4) what can help you?

Focus on this within your sphere of influence and control. Seek others as support and resources to help you, and don’t let setbacks set you up for failure.