You Will Bend…But You Won’t Break

Life will present seemingly insurmountable challenges, especially when you embark on a path of change – growth, enlightenment, or just something different. There will be moments where you question what you are doing, your purpose, your mission, your vision, and yourself. You will come to resent yourself and others, or feel like you just cannot go on and you need to turn back. Expect to have these moments and more because change hurts. The process of change is NEVER easy. It requires you to face uncomfortable beliefs and thoughts, become comfortable with the unfamiliar, and release yourself from anything or … Continue reading You Will Bend…But You Won’t Break

Burn the Ships

“Burn the Ships…” When Cortés and his men made land at the New World in 1519, he instructed his men to burn their ships, sending a very clear message that they were committed to this journey, that there was no turning back. “Burn the ships…” Can you imagine THAT conversation and how it went?!? Oh, to be a fly on THAT wall…. It probably went something like, “…but we just got here…” or “…how will we get home?” But that was the point. By burning the ships, he and his 600 or so crew were forced to make the best … Continue reading Burn the Ships

How to Get Unstuck

How to Get Unstuck Step 1 – ☑ Connect Connect to your why – your vision and purpose. Sometimes when we are stuck, it’s because we have lost sight of our why. Chasing other ‘s  dreams instead of your own..ignoring that inner voice… take a few moments to reaffirm your why – get back to you. Step 2 – ☑ Correct Once you have connected to your why, take a look at what you’ve been doing lately. Are you actively doing things that fit your why? If not, start using your why as a filter so that you can be … Continue reading How to Get Unstuck

Quick Tips: Networking

1) Networking is a full contact sport It is not for the faint or meek. You have to go into it with a goal and do what’s necessary to achieve that goal. Your feelings will get hurt, you will feel used, abused and even get injured directly or become collateral damage in someone’s plots BUT you cannot let that stop you. Regardless of whether or not you are in business for yourself, every moment spent awake is a networking opportunity, it’s up to you in terms of whether you take advantage of it. 2) Build It Before You Need It … Continue reading Quick Tips: Networking

The Power of the Tongue

​”So shall my word be that goes forth from my out; it shall not return to me void, but it shall accomplish what I please, and it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it.”  ~ Isaiah 55:11 Do you realize how much power your words have?  Your words have power!  They influence your actions and your thinking. As you say things to yourself and others, you start to see those things coming true – the good AND the bad.  As you start to see those things coming true, you begin to believe more in what you have said, and … Continue reading The Power of the Tongue

Who’s Your Hiram?

Who is Assisting You With Your Destiny? You have to have someone assist you to get to your destiny. The assist comes from mentors, sponsors, and advocates. Mentoring Mentoring is a relationship where a person in your area of interest, industry, or career uses their knowledge and experiences to provide support and guidance. Mentoring can be formal or informal based on the arrangement you agree upon and how the relationship was initiated.  Mentors are concerned with helping you achieve your best, so long as you are willing to listen to their candid, constructive feedback and do the work. Sponsors Sponsors … Continue reading Who’s Your Hiram?

Grief

Loss is never easy. It becomes much more difficult when there is no rationale or logic that can be applied, when it was sudden or unexpected, and when it involves loved ones. Everyone approaches loss and death differently.  Some tackle the feelings head on, while others work through their pain and grief, or push it aside because they don’t know how to handle the onslaught of emotions, heartache, and heartbreak Some will offer words of comfort, and say it gets better with time.  Others will say that faith will help ease the pain. On this day, and in this moment, … Continue reading Grief

Sometimes You Have to be Like Nike and Just Do It!

Sometimes you have to “Just Do it”. Action is a daunting idea when it comes to stepping out of your comfort zone, engaging your passion, vision, and destiny.  We allow fear to paralyze us and keep us from moving, and justify it by saying “I’m just going to wait on the [right moment, Divine Providence, Lord, the Universe, perfect plan…]”.  The problem is that we do nothing in the meantime and we have just given up our ownership of the process! Jane loved what she did.  She was able to be as free and creative as she wanted to be, … Continue reading Sometimes You Have to be Like Nike and Just Do It!

Excuses or Moves?

Stop making excuses for why you can’t or won’t. If you are serious about making a difference in your life, then you have to change your mindset and focus on “how”: 1) what are you trying to do? 2) what does success look like? (Be specific) 3) what are the obstacles that may get in your way? 4) what can help you? Focus on this within your sphere of influence and control. Seek others as support and resources to help you, and don’t let setbacks set you up for failure. Continue reading Excuses or Moves?

Beware the Ides of March

   “Beware the ides of March” Caesar was warned by the Soothsayer to aware of potential danger or harm lurking around the ides of March, yet his ego prevented him from hearing and heeding the warning. He never doubted that those around him would be disloyal inspite of his treatment of them. He never thought their personal ambitions would supersede their loyalty and, gasp, love for the great Caesar. His wife begged him to stay home with her, and he refused. What can we learn from this? Real simple – 1) the backfield is ALWAYS in motion, sometimes for your … Continue reading Beware the Ides of March