How to Get Unstuck Step 1 – ☑ Connect Connect to your why – your vision and purpose. Sometimes when we are stuck, it’s because we have lost sight of our why. Chasing other ‘s dreams instead of your own..ignoring that inner voice… take a few moments to reaffirm your why – get back to you. Step 2 – ☑ Correct Once you have connected to your why, take a look at what you’ve been doing lately. Are you actively doing things that fit your why? If not, start using your why as a filter so that you can be … Continue reading How to Get Unstuck
1) Networking is a full contact sport It is not for the faint or meek. You have to go into it with a goal and do what’s necessary to achieve that goal. Your feelings will get hurt, you will feel used, abused and even get injured directly or become collateral damage in someone’s plots BUT you cannot let that stop you. Regardless of whether or not you are in business for yourself, every moment spent awake is a networking opportunity, it’s up to you in terms of whether you take advantage of it. 2) Build It Before You Need It … Continue reading Quick Tips: Networking
”So shall my word be that goes forth from my out; it shall not return to me void, but it shall accomplish what I please, and it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it.” ~ Isaiah 55:11 Do you realize how much power your words have? Your words have power! They influence your actions and your thinking. As you say things to yourself and others, you start to see those things coming true – the good AND the bad. As you start to see those things coming true, you begin to believe more in what you have said, and … Continue reading The Power of the Tongue
Who is Assisting You With Your Destiny? You have to have someone assist you to get to your destiny. The assist comes from mentors, sponsors, and advocates. Mentoring Mentoring is a relationship where a person in your area of interest, industry, or career uses their knowledge and experiences to provide support and guidance. Mentoring can be formal or informal based on the arrangement you agree upon and how the relationship was initiated. Mentors are concerned with helping you achieve your best, so long as you are willing to listen to their candid, constructive feedback and do the work. Sponsors Sponsors … Continue reading Who’s Your Hiram?
Loss is never easy. It becomes much more difficult when there is no rationale or logic that can be applied, when it was sudden or unexpected, and when it involves loved ones. Everyone approaches loss and death differently. Some tackle the feelings head on, while others work through their pain and grief, or push it aside because they don’t know how to handle the onslaught of emotions, heartache, and heartbreak Some will offer words of comfort, and say it gets better with time. Others will say that faith will help ease the pain. On this day, and in this moment, … Continue reading Grief
Sometimes you have to “Just Do it”. Action is a daunting idea when it comes to stepping out of your comfort zone, engaging your passion, vision, and destiny. We allow fear to paralyze us and keep us from moving, and justify it by saying “I’m just going to wait on the [right moment, Divine Providence, Lord, the Universe, perfect plan…]”. The problem is that we do nothing in the meantime and we have just given up our ownership of the process! Jane loved what she did. She was able to be as free and creative as she wanted to be, … Continue reading Sometimes You Have to be Like Nike and Just Do It!
Stop making excuses for why you can’t or won’t. If you are serious about making a difference in your life, then you have to change your mindset and focus on “how”: 1) what are you trying to do? 2) what does success look like? (Be specific) 3) what are the obstacles that may get in your way? 4) what can help you? Focus on this within your sphere of influence and control. Seek others as support and resources to help you, and don’t let setbacks set you up for failure. Continue reading Excuses or Moves?
“Beware the ides of March” Caesar was warned by the Soothsayer to aware of potential danger or harm lurking around the ides of March, yet his ego prevented him from hearing and heeding the warning. He never doubted that those around him would be disloyal inspite of his treatment of them. He never thought their personal ambitions would supersede their loyalty and, gasp, love for the great Caesar. His wife begged him to stay home with her, and he refused. What can we learn from this? Real simple – 1) the backfield is ALWAYS in motion, sometimes for your … Continue reading Beware the Ides of March
The meeting of two individuals is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is a reaction, both are transformed. – C.G. Jung There is power in the coaching relationship that is transformative when its right. That’s why its important to date your coach. Make sure that you know what you want, need, and are willing to do PRIOR to entering into a coaching relationship. Make sure that you have a sense for your coach’s personality, style, and process. You have to feel a level of trust and confidence in your coach’s knowledge, experience, ability, and style in order … Continue reading Transform Your Life
You never know who you meet and when or where your name will come up. Your personal brand will speak for you when you are not there, so make sure that you harness the power of your brand – know what others think of you, what you think they think of your, and how you want them to think of you. #Brand #PersonalBranding #PersonalDevelopment Continue reading Personal Branding