Beware the Ides of March

   “Beware the ides of March” Caesar was warned by the Soothsayer to aware of potential danger or harm lurking around the ides of March, yet his ego prevented him from hearing and heeding the warning. He never doubted that those around him would be disloyal inspite of his treatment of them. He never thought their personal ambitions would supersede their loyalty and, gasp, love for the great Caesar. His wife begged him to stay home with her, and he refused. What can we learn from this? Real simple – 1) the backfield is ALWAYS in motion, sometimes for your … Continue reading Beware the Ides of March

Transform Your Life

The meeting of two individuals is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is a reaction, both are transformed. – C.G. Jung There is power in the coaching relationship that is transformative when its right. That’s why its important to date your coach. Make sure that you know what you want, need, and are willing to do PRIOR to entering into a coaching relationship. Make sure that you have a sense for your coach’s personality, style, and process. You have to feel a level of trust and confidence in your coach’s knowledge, experience, ability, and style in order … Continue reading Transform Your Life

Some broken things can’t & shouldn’t be fixed

Sometimes good things break to make room for something better… Sometimes what’s broken can’t be fixed, and maybe that’s for the best. I broke my favorite phone charm and was reminded of these two things while I worked feverishly to fix it. I recalled how I managed to put it back together, albeit haphazardly in the past only for it to fall out off my phone and break again…and again ..and again… Maybe there is a reason for that…maybe the universe was trying to tell me something that I refused to hear, so it decided to show me instead . … Continue reading Some broken things can’t & shouldn’t be fixed

Be Unfukwithable

Regardless of what you do, how you do it , or your “why”, you HAVE GOT TO GET THICKER SKIN. Learn to be #unfuckwithable where your feelings don’t get hurt because you are confident in your destiny, secure in who you are, and trusting of your journey. Let the poison others feed you strengthen you and remember to smile when you wave to your haters… #StillStanding #SuccessIsEarned #SeeWithVision #LiveWithPurpose #HiHaters Continue reading Be Unfukwithable

The blessings of knowledge and wisdom from the lessons of experience

Your life experience provides the best fodder for teaching, coaching, and mentoring others. The source of knowledge is not what matters, in other words, it doesn’t have to be gained from “personal experience”.  You can and do learn through others’ experiences all of the time.  What matters is what you do with that knowledge once it is acquired.  Do you digest it and nourish yourself and others, creating wisdom; do you ignore it,  or do you hoard it? Don’t miss your opportunity to share the blessings from your lesson or glean the blessings from the lessons of others. That’s how … Continue reading The blessings of knowledge and wisdom from the lessons of experience